We received an enquiry asking if a lie detector test could help with an infidelity suspicion.  Our polygraph examiner in Grimsby responded to it.

Q: Do you have lie detector tests in Grimsby for infidelity?

I’ve been married for six years and feel a little silly writing to ask for some advice about my husband but I’m at a loss as to what I can do.  His behaviour has started to make me anxious about his fidelity. It’s true we’ve been arguing a lot but we’ve always had an open and honest relationship. We know the passwords to each other’s computers and the pass codes to each other’s phones. We even have each other’s pin numbers for our bank cards. Over the years we’ve never hidden anything from each other but that has changed.

Darren keeps getting calls on his mobile and when we’re sat together at night his phone is always going off. These constant messages and calls are being ignored by him, when I’m in the room at least. I’ve asked him if anything is going on and if he’s still happy with me and he says he is, but it’s out of the ordinary behaviour and I don’t like it.

I know I shouldn’t have done it but he left his phone downstairs when he was in the shower and I decided to have a look through it. I was scared at what I would find but knew if he is seeing someone else then my marriage would be over. It wasn’t possible to access his phone as he’d changed the passcode and I can’t see any reason he would do this. I confronted him about it and he got angry and asked why I was snooping. He said I was invading his privacy and I should trust him. I asked for the new passcode but he refused.

I don’t know how to sort this out and wondered if you did a lie detector test in Grimsby.  Will it help if you do?  I know he’d take it as the fear of losing our two young children would be too much for him to bear.

M. W., Grimsby

Response from our Polygraph Examiner in Grimsby

I’m sorry to hear about the problems you have described regarding your husband’s change in behaviour.

To answer your question directly, we do administer lie detector tests in Grimsby.  Many of them relate to infidelity.  You would be surprised how many suspicions are aroused by messages and calls on mobile phones. They are often the cause of lie detector tests being booked, so you are by no means alone and shouldn’t feel silly.

Sometimes suspicions are confirmed by a polygraph examination but at others they are not.  If you have a milestone birthday or anniversary coming up, it could be that all those messages are about planning a surprise party. If there isn’t a special event on the horizon it’s probably best to find out what is going on. Living with constant suspicion will erode your relationship. A lie detector test is an effective method to discover the truth of any matter quickly.

Booking a lie detector test

We have a secure booking system on our website which can be accessed by clicking here.

Alternatively if you would like to confidentially discuss what is involved before booking, please call our free helpline on 0800 368 8277. Let our customer service representative know that you are calling on the advice of the polygraph examiner in Grimsby.