Enquiry about a Lie Detector Test in Maidstone for Infidelity
During the coronavirus lockdown our polygraph examiners have been answering so many queries from people who have mistrust issues. This one comes from a worried wife wanting to book a lie detector test in Maidstone because she suspects her husband is cheating on her.
Q: Can I book a lie detector test in Maidstone to find out if my husband is cheating on me with our neighbour?
I’m emailing you as I can see you have reopened and are starting to do lie detector tests again.
My problem began around 5 months ago when I got a new neighbour. Jenny is a single mum and we seemed to hit it off straight away. It’s been a long time since I’ve had a female friend to talk to. I married quite young and have twin sons who take up all of my time. Finding time to myself is a rarity and spending time with friends has been pretty much non existent, so when she came to introduce herself I was over the moon. Craig, my husband, was really supportive and offered to have the kids once a week so I could have a wine with Jenny and a catch up. It’s been great to get out of the house, even if it is just for a few hours.
One evening Jenny was complaining that her washing machine had broken down and I offered to send Craig round to take a look. After an hour, he still hadn’t come back and I went round to check how he was getting on. When Jenny answered the door she seemed flustered and said she was running around after the kids, but I’m not sure. Craig came home about 20 minutes afterwards and said the machine was beyond repair. He was going to take Jenny into town to buy a new one the following weekend. Craig has a transit van so it made sense to me that he’d offered to help.
I didn’t think much about it at the time and then we all went into the coronavirus lockdown. Oddly Jenny turned up that Saturday to go shopping for a new machine. I explained she’d need to wait as everything was closed. But Craig said he had a mate who had one for sale and off they went.
I’ve been really careful about not going out, or letting my boys out but Craig is going out all the time. He’ll go to the shops and be an hour when it should only take 10 minutes. I keep catching him and Jenny chatting over the fence in the garden and when I turn up they go quiet. Craig seems to spend a lot of time with her. Recently he’s been hiding his phone and not answering it when it rings. I don’t know why as it’s never been an issue before.
I’ve asked him outright if he’s cheating with Jenny but he accuses me of being paranoid and makes me feel like I’m jealous. To be honest I am. They seem to have a great relationship, better than we have anyway. Every time I bring the subject up he says it’s no wonder I don’t have any female friends, if this is what I think whenever he speaks to another woman. Jenny has also been off with me lately and blames her lack of contact on the lockdown.
Maybe I have cabin fever and maybe I am paranoid but things don’t seem right, and I need to get to the bottom of it. Someone I know booked a lie detector test in Maidstone with you last year. Do you think you could help me? I’d rather know now whilst the boys are still young than be in a relationship that is based on lies and deceit.
K. D., Maidstone
Response from Maidstone Polygraph Examiner
I am sorry that you have these suspicions. It is particularly difficult when they arise in circumstances where your freedom of movement is restricted. Spending time at home 24/7 and not being able to go out gives us lots of time to dwell on issues.
Your husband accusing you of being paranoid and jealous won’t be helping the issue. The fact of the matter is that his behaviour is leading you to believe something is wrong. Lack of trust leads to friction in any relationship and is best dealt with quickly before lasting damage occurs. So, in answer to your question a polygraph test can help you.
Lie detector test in Maidstone
At the moment, we are only conducting residential polygraph examinations. The reason for this is that we don’t want clients placing themselves at risk by travelling to our offices. Mingling with people on public transport or when walking to our offices potentially exposed them to the virus. You can’t guarantee that everyone out there is practising social distancing.
All our polygraph examiners, including me, have tested negative for COVID-19. Our equipment is sterile and masks and gloves will be worn.
The environment we require for home tests needs to quiet and without interruptions. If you have a study or spare room where the test can take place this will be ideal. You should not be present in the room when the test takes place. We need your husband to be relaxed and not to feel under pressure.
Please feel free to call our helpline on 0800 368 8277 if you’d like to discuss the test further. If not, you can book a lie detector test in Maidstone using our secure online booking system. We have polygraph examiners throughout London and the Home Counties so there is rarely a long waiting time.