Dudley Lie Detector Test Query about Controlling Husband
This query for a Dudley lie detector test, regarding a controlling husband was handled by our West Midlands Polygraph Examiner.
Q: If I take a lie detector test will it prove to my husband that I am not cheating on him?
I have only been married a few months but from day one my husband has searched through my phone, my laptop and my handbag. He says I shouldn’t object if I have nothing to hide.
In all honesty, I have nothing to hide but feel this is an invasion of my privacy. I have done nothing to make my husband mistrust me, so I don’t understand why he is doing it.
He hasn’t said that he thinks I am cheating on him, but all his actions point in that direction.
If I took a lie detector test, would it prove to him that I am not being unfaithful? I can’t think of another way of doing it.
S. J., Dudley
Response from West Midlands Polygraph Examiner
A polygraph examination will help you to prove you are not cheating but it may be there are deeper issues here.
You say he hasn’t accused you of infidelity, but have you asked him if he has suspicions about it? If you haven’t it’s a good idea to calmly discuss the issue with him. While the usual reason for partners doing this are because they have doubts about fidelity, it is not always the case. Sometimes it can be because they are checking up on your spending or looking for other secrets you might be keeping from them.
Married or not, you are entitled to some privacy and your husband should respect that. Would he like you to root through his phone or computer?
Nevertheless, no matter the reason this behaviour is controlling and demonstrates insecurity. It’s not unusual for situations such as these to lead to domestic violence if allowed to continue unchecked.
Dudley lie detector test
We suggest you book a Couples lie detector test. In this way you can prove you are not cheating, and we can find out the basis of his insecurity. If only you take a test, it feeds his controlling behaviour because he has pushed you to it.
Relationship counselling is also an option you might want to explore. By taking action now you will prevent matters, that pose a clear threat to your marriage, escalating further.
If you would like more information about Couples lie detector tests, please call our Free Helpline on 0800 368 8277. Notify our customer care representative that the West Midlands Polygraph Examiner has advised you to call.
Alternatively, you can book a Dudley lie detector test online, using our secure reservation system.